Are the edges getting blurred between your work life and home life? If you work from home, it’s really easy for those edges to get blurred. You might, for example, find yourself checking for responses to your tweets when you should be spending time with your family. Or maybe you feel the pull of work because your office is right there at the top of the stairs. Whatever your situation, you must set some “hard edges” between work and personal time if you’re going to work from home successfully. Here are three rules for defining hard edges between work and play.
I. Set Firm Work Days: Working seven days a week is a common mistake of work-at-home entrepreneurs. That’s a real mistake, because no one can maintain that level of intensity long-term.
Decide how many days per week you’re going to work, and stick to it. Here’s why this is important: the work you have to do will fill the time you spend doing it. In other words, if you allow yourself to be sucked into working late nights and weekends, you’ll adjust your workload because you know you’ve got lots of time to do it.
On the other hand, if you say you’re going to work just three days each week, you have to adjust your focus to get things done in less time. If you want to have time for something besides work in your life, create a hard edge between business and personal time by setting firm work days.
II. Reserve Time for Yourself: It may not seem logical that setting aside time for yourself each week actually improves your productivity, but it does help. An important aspect of setting hard edges between work and play is allowing time when no one requires anything from you.
You should especially pay attention if you’re a work-at-home parent. By setting a time when someone else is minding the children and you’re not working in your business, you allow yourself to refocus. It also gives you time to do those things you never seem to get scheduled in your personal life.
Whether you take a whole “You Day” each week, or just a few hours, decide now to set firm time that’s all yours. It will make you a happier and more productive person.
III. Stick to the Schedule! It’s all well and good to say you’re only going to work four days each week and take Wednesdays for yourself, but sticking with that schedule takes resolve. It’s so easy when working from home to read “just one more email” or let a project stretch into family time.
There’s no amount of money that can replace time with your family. Allowing your business to encroach on that time probably won’t even improve the strength of your business.
For your own health, and the health of your business, delineate a hard edge between work and play, and then stick with the schedule you set. You’ll be amazed how much you’re able to get done when you have less time to complete it. And your family will benefit from the time you set aside just for them.
When you work from home, you have the freedom to call the shots, to decide when and how you’re going to work. That is, after all, one of the reasons you own your own business, isn’t it?
Rather than allowing your business to control your life, decide what work schedule suits your situation. Let hard edges, not blurred edges, define how your business and personal lives blend. Doing so is a big step toward being truly successful.
Bernadette Doyle is a small business marketing expert. Get more tips and advice at http://www.clientmagnets.com
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Dear Bernadette,
It is quite informative and practical way to cut down your stress that originates due tight work schedules. Creating a clearer distinction between daily work routine and family life is necessary towards making your work more enjoyable, as pointed out by you.
Thanks
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Jason Gaya
This is a nice blog post that is very timely because a lot of entrepreneurs who are excited about achieving their goals for 2010 might sacrifice their time for their family without they themselves knowing about it. I also have met with entrepreneurs who want to focus more on their private life this year while getting the work done. This blog post will definitely provide the tips needed. Thanks.
Thanks for adding a visual concept to this issue, Bernadette. Picturing the “hard edges” somehow helps to crystallize the importance of this message.
One way I sometimes blur that edge is by planning play time with fellow entrepreneurs, and then we spend our time talking about work. Not exactly a break — and my energy and creative level truly do suffer when I don’t take the total breaks with firm boundaries you wrote about. Great reminder and reframe of the whole subject. Thanks!
All work and no play is not good! Nice article!